When asked what are the signs of arousal in a man, every girl will immediately answer that it is an erection. However, how to know that a guy wants to make love if you check whether his organ is ready "for work and defense" is not possible.
Signs of arousal in men:
- Non-verbal signals.
- Courtship.
- The position of the man.
- Physical reactions.
Non-verbal cues
There are non-verbal body signals that can tell you just as well as words if a man wants you. For example, if a guy is interested in you and wants to make love with you, he will begin to copy your actions on a subconscious level, this will manifest itself in repeating your movements and body positions. If the guy, on the contrary, starts playing "mirror" with you, it's a clear signal that he doesn't mind taking you to the bedroom.
During the conversation, an excited man will constantly close the distance between you, doing it absolutely automatically. In the process of communication, the distances between bodies will slowly but surely decrease. The next stage is direct contact - touch. This does not mean that a man will start giving up, allowing himself too much. The cooler your relationship is, the less pronounced this phase will be. It can manifest itself in light contact with the hands and feet. This is body language that makes it clear that a man is lusting after you. Pay attention to such accidents, which, as a rule, are not accidental at all.
Courtship
During communication, an excited man will not miss an opportunity to show attention to the object of his desire. If you are sitting at the table, he will fill your glass, serve you a snack, and in the case of a warm relationship, he will try to feed you from his hands. The latter is a sure sign that "the client is ready", take it lightly, it won't go anywhere.
An excited man will help you sit on the chair and get up from it. He will give you outer clothes and help you put them on. They will do all this not only out of politeness. His masculine nature will tell him that this is an additional opportunity to make contact, to touch the object of his desire.
The position of the man
When he sees a woman he is interested in, the guy automatically turns on the "macho" mode, straightens his back, tightens his stomach and thus shows how harmonious he is and all the charms of his masculine figure. If the guy is sitting, he will automatically spread his legs, showing his groin. Spreading your legs is a gesture of a confident male who has noticed a worthy female.
If you are standing opposite each other, pay attention to the direction in which the toes of his shoes are "looking". Facing you means that he is interested in you.
Physical reactions
Physiologically, the state of arousal is not only manifested in an erection. A person's breathing rate, voice, look changes, his pulse quickens, blood pressure rises. If you see him fixing his tie, which seems to be suffocating him, maybe it's not because it's hot, but because the man is literally burning with the desire to have sex with you. At the same time, follow the man's voice and his gaze. If he's excited, he won't be able to hide it behind a "mask".
Pay attention to the man's breathing. If he is excited, he will not be able to breathe evenly and calmly as in his normal state. His breathing will change.